2-3 wEEKS bEFORE
Once your session is on the calendar, take a little time to confirm the date, time, and location so everything feels clear and easy. Review any location details like walking distance, terrain, or accessibility, so you know exactly what to expect. If you plan on scheduling haircuts, beard trims, or brow shaping, booking those ahead of time can help you feel your best. And if pets are joining in, inviting a trusted helper along can make the experience smoother for everyone.
1 Week Before
In the week leading up to your session, focus on the basics that help you feel good; rest, hydration, and nourishing meals go a long way. It’s best to skip trying new skincare products or treatments right before your session, just to keep things predictable. Double-check transportation and parking plans so you can arrive feeling calm and unrushed. As the day approaches, start thinking of this less as a photoshoot and more as a chance to slow down and enjoy the experience together.
1–2 Days Before
Take a quick peek at the weather so you know what to expect, then set out anything you plan to bring ahead of time to keep things easy and stress-free. Do your best to get a good night’s sleep, and carve out a few moments to connect with your partner, whether that’s chatting over coffee, going for a short walk, or sharing a laugh. Showing up relaxed and connected makes such a difference, and it always shines through in your photos.
Timeline: How Far in Advance to Prepare
Grooming, Skincare & Polishing Details
A little prep goes a long way when it comes to feeling confident in your photos. Plan haircuts about one to two weeks before your session so everything settles into a natural, effortless look. If you have a beard, a fresh trim and shape the day before (or the day of) works perfectly. Just try to avoid any big or drastic changes right before your session.
In the days leading up, focus on simple, consistent skincare. Drink plenty of water, moisturize your face, hands, and lips, and skip tanning or sunburn risks so your skin looks its best. If you tend to get shiny, tossing a few blotting papers or a bit of translucent powder in your bag can be helpful.
Engagement sessions often include close-up moments, hands intertwined, rings catching the light, so keep nails clean and neutral, and give your hands a little extra moisture to avoid dryness. These small details may seem minor, but they help everything feel polished and natural without any extra effort.
Getting in the Right Headspace
It’s totally normal to feel a little nervous before your session, but connection matters far more than looking “posed.” The first few minutes might feel awkward, and that’s okay! You don’t need to know exactly how to pose or what to do with your hands.
Think of me as your guide, offering prompts rather than stiff poses. Focus on each other, not the camera, and let yourselves move, laugh, and talk naturally.
Here’s a little pro tip: before your session, chat with your partner about the vibe you want; romantic, playful, laid-back, or adventurous. Having that shared intention makes it easier to relax and enjoy the experience together.
Location Logistics & Flow
Every location has its own personality, and part of the fun is exploring it together! Some spots may involve a little walking, climbing, or uneven ground, so be ready to move a bit between photo locations. Popular areas might have other people around, don’t worry, it’s totally normal and easy to work with.
Timing makes a big difference, too. Engagement sessions are usually planned around golden hour for that warm, flattering light. Even on cloudy days, the soft, diffused light can create stunning images. Light changes quickly, so arriving on time helps us make the most of it.
A little weather, like a breeze, clouds, or cooler temperatures, often adds character to your photos. Only extreme weather might require rescheduling, and I’ll guide you if that’s the case. The key is staying flexible and enjoying the experience together, no matter what nature has in store!
Helpful Items
Water
Lip balm
Blotting papers or powder
Hair ties, clips, or bobby pins
Comfortable shoes for walking between locations
A small bag that can be set aside during photos
Treats if pets are included
Meaningful Extras
Champagne or drinks
Picnic blanket
A letter or vow book
Flowers or a small bouquet
Items tied to your relationship or proposal story
What to Avoid
Phones (silence them if possible)
Bulky bags or wallets in pockets
Watches that don't match the shoot
Anything that pulls focus away from you two
What to Bring (& What to Leave Behind)
Make It Part of a Bigger Experience
Treat your engagement session like a date, not a chore. Plan something fun or cozy to enjoy together once it’s done, whether that’s a nice dinner, drinks, a relaxing walk, or a cozy night in. When you approach the session with excitement instead of pressure, it naturally shows in your energy and makes your photos feel even more authentic.
Final Thoughts
Your engagement session is not about perfection.
It’s about connection, presence, and capturing a season you’ll never get back.
Come prepared, trust the process, and allow yourselves to enjoy it fully. Your only job is to show up and love each other, everything else will be taken care of!